Don’t allow yourself to be a push-over have a mind of your own and dreams of your own. Have goals and work towards them, make decisions and stick to them. So many sick minded people love pushovers so much because they can do what they want and how they want. Imagine saying something like you are a good person but your communication skills sucks so I can’t buy that and stick to that. Work on yourself, work on your goals and dreams and have a mind of what you want don’t settle for less just because you see potential in future because if not realized it will remain only potential.

Aspire for freedom rather than security. Freedom is having the ability to make your own decisions and making your love according to how you want it to be without the influence of another by a promise of something then you end up giving selling yourself shot of what you real are worth. You are worthy and you are great and you have a brain to make decisions make use of it and stick to your decision that’s self discipline. Love to be unique and use your uniqueness as an advantage to climbing the ladder you want. Stop comparing yourself with other you are great for who you are believe in yourself and keep trusting on the process and how wonderful that maybe .

People look at the footballers and athletes and even big businesses people and admire their success but they don’t want to put effort to get that kind of success. They are just interested in the success with no hard work attached to it. You will just live your mediocre life only admiring others because they are willing and ready to put efforts. How many hours do you think the footballers and athletes spend just practicing without any tangible result, many right and how many hours do you think it takes to build a big business. It takes a lot of time and effort to achieve such great success. Be willing and discipline to have the effort requir d to achieve great things in your life.


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